Dude....finally my moms about to leave.  Why is it all my life she has not been in it and now when I am all grown up she pops back into my life and try to be a mom as if i were a 8 year old kid when our family split up?  Doesn't she know I can take care of myself?  All them years when I only saw her, what, twice a year for a two weeks if that.  where was she then.  Situation is not all her fault, parents always want the best for "they" kids but this time it didn't turn out good for nobody.  Bad decision on spliting the family up while we imigrated.(Yeah I am F.O.B.)  I figure if we suffer, we should suffer together as a family, not split up for financial benifits and give up being together as a family.  snicker, snicker....i will miss her when she leaves though......worrying about me and nagging after me, this, that and the other.  How much more personal can you get on the opening posting.